Why Infants Need Emotional Support
The developmental science of early childhood is unambiguous on one point: emotional support is not a luxury for infants. It is a biological requiremen...
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The developmental science of early childhood is unambiguous on one point: emotional support is not a luxury for infants. It is a biological requiremen...
"Having someone there" matters more to children than it does to adults — not just emotionally, but physiologically. The research on social buffering i...
The instinct to punish a tantrum — to send the child to their room, to take away privileges, to issue warnings about consequences — is understandable...
When adults discuss emotional regulation in children, they often mean the child's ability to manage their own emotions. In the first six months, this...
Parents often search for the right thing to do when their child is emotionally dysregulated. The developmental science suggests that what matters more...
The most common question parents ask about children's emotional regulation is "How do I teach my child to manage their emotions?" The developmental sc...
You notice your child acts out more when you're stressed. You're calmer and present, and suddenly your child's behavior improves without you changing...
Parents sometimes reassure themselves that a baby cannot understand the adult's distress or anxiety. The developmental evidence suggests otherwise: in...
When a toddler throws food off the high chair for the third time, or a baby cries for an hour in the middle of the night, the parent's internal emotio...
From birth, children are emotional mirrors. They observe how the adults around them respond to stress, frustration, disappointment, and joy—and they a...
A toddler in full anger is an extraordinary sight: the whole body involved, complete loss of composure, sometimes genuinely terrifying in its intensit...
Self-regulation is one of those terms that has moved from academic psychology into parenting discussions with a speed that has not always been matched...